new video babes!  i went to the woods to confess to one of my biggest sexual secrets: i used to fake orgasm.  FOR 6 FREAKING YEARS.  let’s talk about:

✔ faking orgasm
✔ why people do it
✔ why you probably shouldn’t

(NEW SEX+: FAKING ORGASM…)

new vid is up ~ SEX WITH DISABILITIES?  my lovely friend olivia joins me to talk about her experiences with sexuality and disabilities!  tons of info, including:

✔ Stereotypes about people with disabilities
✔ Her successes and challenges with dating
✔ How to accommodate various disabilities during sex

pro tip: perform magic tricks for anyone who gives you a hard time about wearing a condom during sex. for instance, a disappearing act

new sex+ is up babes! THE TRUTH ABOUT PULLING OUT!  here’s the story of how a pretty effective birth control method gets its terrible reputation… in the vid i talk about:

✔ why it fails so often
✔ precum myths
✔ how to make it 96% effective
✔ who should & shouldn’t rely on pulling out

new video is up!  fun fact: men AND women (and everyone in between) are capable of having multiple orgasms.

…..i just wanna make sure you ring in the new year right

(New Sex+: MAGICAL MULTIPLE ORGASMS)

i’ve unleashed all the secrets to magical unicorn lesbian sex

(new sex+: HOW DO LESBIANS HAVE THE SEX???)

just john green being the light of my life as usual

since america refuses to give comprehensive sex ed, a lot of people end up learning from….porn. not the most wonderful thing when sex is represented inaccurately in all kiiiinds of ways in pornography.

-set from Porn Sex vs. Real Sex: The Differences Explained With Food (x)(x)

likesboyswholikeboys:

you can preach about slut-shaming all you want, but you can’t deny there’s something very wrong with 13 and 14-year old girls going out in skirts and dresses so short they barely cover their asses and shirts with necklines so low they show off cleave they haven’t got yet, drinking and even smoking and hooking up with guys before they even have a substantial knowledge of how sex and sexual relationships work.

Yes, there is something wrong with it.  No, you are not better than said girls.  And no, it is STILL NOT AN EXCUSE TO SLUT SHAME.  Not even 13 year olds with “dresses so short they barely cover their asses”.

There IS a reason why very young girls engage in these types of behaviors, and at the fragile age of 13, it’s not because they are conscientiously reclaiming their sexuality and their body.  It’s because they’ve already had their sexual power taken away from them.  At 13, they’ve already learned that their sole value as young women is their ability to be sexually desirable to men.  It’s a form of self-objectification and it is caused by (not a JUSTIFICATION FOR) sexism.

This has everything to do with the same dysfunctional culture about sexuality that allows people to think slut shame is *~totes cool cuz those girls are dumb hoes~*.  People need to STOP revictimizing these young women who are ONLY ACTING ON WHAT THEY’VE LEARNED.  Instead of looking down on them and continuing the cycle of telling them that they’re worthless, they need to know that they’re WORTHWHILE.  Not just because they are attractive and desirable, but because they’re also strong, smart, funny, interesting, kind, talented, and any number of other traits that someone who is learning to see themselves as an object might not immediately recognize.

Shit like this just really pisses me off.  

fun fact: a queef is just your vagina making a divine revelation.

(New Sex+: EMBARRASSING SEX STORIES)

ohai LA(ish) area friends!  if you’re around, you should come join my sex posi party this friday!  we’ll chat about sexytimes and deconstruct rape culture.

ohai LA(ish) area friends!  if you’re around, you should come join my sex posi party this friday!  we’ll chat about sexytimes and deconstruct rape culture.

the g-spot (or rather, the “g-area”) is a pretty neat little thingy.

the g-spot (or rather, the “g-area”) is a pretty neat little thingy.

THE G SPOT IS REAL!  don’t let em tell you otherwise!!  on today’s sex+, let’s talk about what’s really goin on with your hot spot.