hello sex+ babes.  tomorrow I am heading out to VIDCON!  I will be there Fri-Sat and am basically there to meet fellow youtubers and spend some time with you, my viewers!
Here is where you can find me this year:Women of YouTube MeetupWhere: OUTSIDE, in front of the big stage.  We don’t have a room.When: Friday, 3:30PM-4:30PM
Are you a woman who makes videos?  Are you a person (of any gender) who watches a woman who makes videos?  You gotta be here!  This meetup, cofacilitated by Rosianna (PaperTimeLady) and LexCanRoar, will be an opportunity to meet fellow women of YouTube and their allies.  We will be discussing some of the unique issues that come up for female content creators on YouTube and how we can better support each other.
Sex+ Meet & Greet with Laci GreenWhere: OUTSIDE, in front of the big stage.  We don’t have a room.When: at 4:30, following the Women of YouTube meetup
This is just me making myself available to meet and give hugs and take pictures and say OHAI!  
Sex+ 1-on-1 Peer CounselingWHEN: Saturday during lunch, around 1.WHERE: Probably in front of the convention center by the food!  Follow my Twitter to get an update if we have to change that.
Often when I do IRL organizing, folks want to talk and get some advice!  VidCon is a little different than most the stuff I do, so I’m not sure if anyone will actually want to talk there….but just in case, I am available!  Grab some food and come talk to me about whatevers.  My ears are open.  
I will also have (a limited supply of) free safer sex items on me.  So excited to meet you!  Happy vidcon-ing!!

(IMPORTANT NOTE:  All 3 of these are open to the GENERAL PUBLIC because they don’t require a vidcon pass.  OKBAI)

hello sex+ babes.  tomorrow I am heading out to VIDCON!  I will be there Fri-Sat and am basically there to meet fellow youtubers and spend some time with you, my viewers!

Here is where you can find me this year:

Women of YouTube Meetup
Where: OUTSIDE, in front of the big stage.  We don’t have a room.
When: Friday, 3:30PM-4:30PM

Are you a woman who makes videos?  Are you a person (of any gender) who watches a woman who makes videos?  You gotta be here!  This meetup, cofacilitated by Rosianna (PaperTimeLady) and LexCanRoar, will be an opportunity to meet fellow women of YouTube and their allies.  We will be discussing some of the unique issues that come up for female content creators on YouTube and how we can better support each other.

Sex+ Meet & Greet with Laci Green
Where: OUTSIDE, in front of the big stage.  We don’t have a room.
When: at 4:30, following the Women of YouTube meetup

This is just me making myself available to meet and give hugs and take pictures and say OHAI!  

Sex+ 1-on-1 Peer Counseling
WHEN: Saturday during lunch, around 1.
WHERE: Probably in front of the convention center by the food!  Follow my Twitter to get an update if we have to change that.

Often when I do IRL organizing, folks want to talk and get some advice!  VidCon is a little different than most the stuff I do, so I’m not sure if anyone will actually want to talk there….but just in case, I am available!  Grab some food and come talk to me about whatevers.  My ears are open.  

I will also have (a limited supply of) free safer sex items on me.  So excited to meet you!  Happy vidcon-ing!!

(IMPORTANT NOTE:  All 3 of these are open to the GENERAL PUBLIC because they don’t require a vidcon pass.  OKBAI)

So this is basically my uterus right now:

As I mentioned before, I was in the hospital last weekend because I have been having such terrible menstrual cramps that at one point I was in fetal position inching across the floor.  There’s also this really intense throbbing in my right ovary and I’m like ????da fuq?????

I’M LOOKIN ATCHU, REPRODUCTIVE PART THINGIES.

At this point I still have no idea what’s is going on.  I got an ultra sound, no cysts.  I am still working through a diagnosis, but it’s defo no fun man.  Even with all the painkiller drugs they put me on.  Like, I thought painkillers were supposed to make you feel good and high as a kite.  Not feel like shit.

Plus my partner has been super busy and all over the place in the middle of finals so he’s like

Neway.  Just an update.  I’m not dead.  Oh, and I made a video.  Methinks it will be up tomorrow!  There may or may not be talk of vagina prophecies.  Hope you like!  hughug. byebye.

just a heads up for my sex posi babes who are in chicago!  if you’re free, come hang.  we’ll talk about relationship feels and hug it out.

just a heads up for my sex posi babes who are in chicago!  if you’re free, come hang.  we’ll talk about relationship feels and hug it out.

the g-spot (or rather, the “g-area”) is a pretty neat little thingy.

the g-spot (or rather, the “g-area”) is a pretty neat little thingy.

come visit me in LA tomorrow night at USC!  i’ll be talking about sex positive hook ups 8D

come visit me in LA tomorrow night at USC!  i’ll be talking about sex positive hook ups 8D

There’s nothing shameful about getting help.  If you’re ready to begin the road to recovery, there are lots of us ready to support you.

Natl Eating Disorders Help
USA: 1-800-931-2237
Canada: 
1-866-633-4220
UK: 0845 634 1414

International
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Sex+ Peer Counselors 

 

Few solid statistics are available about prevalence of eating disorders amongst men.  Because eating disorders are thought of as a “girl thing”, men who have them feel even more shame and are less likely to get help.  

For men and women, symptoms vary slightly.  Women tend to focus on weight loss while men tend to focus on muscle gain - however, both are found engaging in extreme alterations in diet, over-exercising, and even use of performance enhancing/appetite suppressing drugs.

Check out NEDA for more info & keep an eye on my Tumblr this week to learn more about eating disorders!

happy love day everyone!!  here’s a video i made last year about self love on valentine’s day.

it’s okay to shave your body hairto wax your body hairto grow it out longto trim it up shortto color your body hairto whatever your body hair.
body hair is a matter of personal preference!  it’s not a matter of “boys do this and girls do this”, and it’s supermega uncool for people to body police those who have a different preference than they do.  pffff.  fuzzy or hairless, you’re a friggin babe either way.  ;D

it’s okay to shave your body hair
to wax your body hair
to grow it out long
to trim it up short
to color your body hair
to whatever your body hair.

body hair is a matter of personal preference!  it’s not a matter of “boys do this and girls do this”, and it’s supermega uncool for people to body police those who have a different preference than they do.  pffff.  fuzzy or hairless, you’re a friggin babe either way.  ;D

have you taken your motherfucking quest?

having trouble orgasming?  you’re not alone!  let’s take a trip to the woods and discuss some tips for my vagina pals (and their partners).

(Sex+: Laci’s Guide to ORGASM)

…and that’s not to mention that the states using “abstinence only” education have the highest rates of STDs in the country.

New Sex+: A is for ABSTINENCE

…and also ABSOLUTELY AWFUL.  Abstinence Only “education” programs are fear-based, slut-shaming, false-information peddling pieces of shit & it’s a disgrace that they get government funding.

Many menstruation ads today are considered, by some, an *empowering approach* to periods.  And on the surface, maybe that’s what it looks like.  We see smiling women who aren’t held up by menstruation, who are athletic, and business savvy.  But when you take a closer look, these images hold the same negative attitudes about menstruation that we see throughout history.  These ads subtly, but effectively, communicate that menstruation is embarrassing, gross, and needs to be made “invisible”, that it is a defect you need to “smack down” or defeat, that periods are inconvenient and uncomfortable for men.

Rarely are we provided with a positive view of menstruation.  Many of us don’t even know what it would look like to talk about menstruation without implying that it is a “female defect”, shameful, or disgusting.  This positive view might reflect that yes, your body actually releases red menstrual fluid, not some mysterious clear blue fluid.  That no, it does not make you “dirty” for a week and it’s actually OK to have contact with your menses.  That it is not like peeing or pooping because it is biologically connected to sexual reproduction and sexuality.  That being on your period doesn’t make you “crazy” or weak or incapable of making rational decisions.  That it’s okay to love your period, to hate your period, to be a “tough cookie” or to be upset about it - menstruation is different for everyone.  But half the world does it, and it’s not something we should be made to feel bad/embarrassed/gross/defective for.

(See Sex+: PERIOD HATIN’)