IT’S ALMOST GO TIME!  here’s where you can find me during VidCon this year!

IT’S ALMOST GO TIME!  here’s where you can find me during VidCon this year!

hey babelies.  i was on national tv yesterday.  check out my interview with ABC’s Alicia Menendez!

hey babelies.  i was on national tv yesterday.  check out my interview with ABC’s Alicia Menendez!

hallo from ABC studios!

hallo from ABC studios!

themilkoviches:

sex+ with laci green (part 1/?)

sometimes i forget how many friggin videos i’ve made O.O

hello sex+ babes.  tomorrow I am heading out to VIDCON!  I will be there Fri-Sat and am basically there to meet fellow youtubers and spend some time with you, my viewers!
Here is where you can find me this year:Women of YouTube MeetupWhere: OUTSIDE, in front of the big stage.  We don’t have a room.When: Friday, 3:30PM-4:30PM
Are you a woman who makes videos?  Are you a person (of any gender) who watches a woman who makes videos?  You gotta be here!  This meetup, cofacilitated by Rosianna (PaperTimeLady) and LexCanRoar, will be an opportunity to meet fellow women of YouTube and their allies.  We will be discussing some of the unique issues that come up for female content creators on YouTube and how we can better support each other.
Sex+ Meet & Greet with Laci GreenWhere: OUTSIDE, in front of the big stage.  We don’t have a room.When: at 4:30, following the Women of YouTube meetup
This is just me making myself available to meet and give hugs and take pictures and say OHAI!  
Sex+ 1-on-1 Peer CounselingWHEN: Saturday during lunch, around 1.WHERE: Probably in front of the convention center by the food!  Follow my Twitter to get an update if we have to change that.
Often when I do IRL organizing, folks want to talk and get some advice!  VidCon is a little different than most the stuff I do, so I’m not sure if anyone will actually want to talk there….but just in case, I am available!  Grab some food and come talk to me about whatevers.  My ears are open.  
I will also have (a limited supply of) free safer sex items on me.  So excited to meet you!  Happy vidcon-ing!!

(IMPORTANT NOTE:  All 3 of these are open to the GENERAL PUBLIC because they don’t require a vidcon pass.  OKBAI)

hello sex+ babes.  tomorrow I am heading out to VIDCON!  I will be there Fri-Sat and am basically there to meet fellow youtubers and spend some time with you, my viewers!

Here is where you can find me this year:

Women of YouTube Meetup
Where: OUTSIDE, in front of the big stage.  We don’t have a room.
When: Friday, 3:30PM-4:30PM

Are you a woman who makes videos?  Are you a person (of any gender) who watches a woman who makes videos?  You gotta be here!  This meetup, cofacilitated by Rosianna (PaperTimeLady) and LexCanRoar, will be an opportunity to meet fellow women of YouTube and their allies.  We will be discussing some of the unique issues that come up for female content creators on YouTube and how we can better support each other.

Sex+ Meet & Greet with Laci Green
Where: OUTSIDE, in front of the big stage.  We don’t have a room.
When: at 4:30, following the Women of YouTube meetup

This is just me making myself available to meet and give hugs and take pictures and say OHAI!  

Sex+ 1-on-1 Peer Counseling
WHEN: Saturday during lunch, around 1.
WHERE: Probably in front of the convention center by the food!  Follow my Twitter to get an update if we have to change that.

Often when I do IRL organizing, folks want to talk and get some advice!  VidCon is a little different than most the stuff I do, so I’m not sure if anyone will actually want to talk there….but just in case, I am available!  Grab some food and come talk to me about whatevers.  My ears are open.  

I will also have (a limited supply of) free safer sex items on me.  So excited to meet you!  Happy vidcon-ing!!

(IMPORTANT NOTE:  All 3 of these are open to the GENERAL PUBLIC because they don’t require a vidcon pass.  OKBAI)

So this is basically my uterus right now:

As I mentioned before, I was in the hospital last weekend because I have been having such terrible menstrual cramps that at one point I was in fetal position inching across the floor.  There’s also this really intense throbbing in my right ovary and I’m like ????da fuq?????

I’M LOOKIN ATCHU, REPRODUCTIVE PART THINGIES.

At this point I still have no idea what’s is going on.  I got an ultra sound, no cysts.  I am still working through a diagnosis, but it’s defo no fun man.  Even with all the painkiller drugs they put me on.  Like, I thought painkillers were supposed to make you feel good and high as a kite.  Not feel like shit.

Plus my partner has been super busy and all over the place in the middle of finals so he’s like

Neway.  Just an update.  I’m not dead.  Oh, and I made a video.  Methinks it will be up tomorrow!  There may or may not be talk of vagina prophecies.  Hope you like!  hughug. byebye.

just a heads up for my sex posi babes who are in chicago!  if you’re free, come hang.  we’ll talk about relationship feels and hug it out.

just a heads up for my sex posi babes who are in chicago!  if you’re free, come hang.  we’ll talk about relationship feels and hug it out.

the g-spot (or rather, the “g-area”) is a pretty neat little thingy.

the g-spot (or rather, the “g-area”) is a pretty neat little thingy.

come visit me in LA tomorrow night at USC!  i’ll be talking about sex positive hook ups 8D

come visit me in LA tomorrow night at USC!  i’ll be talking about sex positive hook ups 8D

There’s nothing shameful about getting help.  If you’re ready to begin the road to recovery, there are lots of us ready to support you.

Natl Eating Disorders Help
USA: 1-800-931-2237
Canada: 
1-866-633-4220
UK: 0845 634 1414

International
Online chat
Sex+ Peer Counselors 

 

Few solid statistics are available about prevalence of eating disorders amongst men.  Because eating disorders are thought of as a “girl thing”, men who have them feel even more shame and are less likely to get help.  

For men and women, symptoms vary slightly.  Women tend to focus on weight loss while men tend to focus on muscle gain - however, both are found engaging in extreme alterations in diet, over-exercising, and even use of performance enhancing/appetite suppressing drugs.

Check out NEDA for more info & keep an eye on my Tumblr this week to learn more about eating disorders!

happy love day everyone!!  here’s a video i made last year about self love on valentine’s day.

it’s okay to shave your body hairto wax your body hairto grow it out longto trim it up shortto color your body hairto whatever your body hair.
body hair is a matter of personal preference!  it’s not a matter of “boys do this and girls do this”, and it’s supermega uncool for people to body police those who have a different preference than they do.  pffff.  fuzzy or hairless, you’re a friggin babe either way.  ;D

it’s okay to shave your body hair
to wax your body hair
to grow it out long
to trim it up short
to color your body hair
to whatever your body hair.

body hair is a matter of personal preference!  it’s not a matter of “boys do this and girls do this”, and it’s supermega uncool for people to body police those who have a different preference than they do.  pffff.  fuzzy or hairless, you’re a friggin babe either way.  ;D

have you taken your motherfucking quest?