if you ever meet me in real life i am so sorry
sorry that your whole world will be wrecked once you realize i’m fifty times cooler in person
i think it’s worth mentioning that learning to love yourself is a lifelong process. self-love is about building a strong, healthy relationship with yourself. just like any other loving relationship, you’ll feel the positive effects soon after you begin - but that’s just the starting line :)

a new book opens today!
i’ll be posting sex+ new year’s tips throughout the day on my twitter. check em out! :)
I used to be SUPER uncomfortable with compliments. I didn’t trust that the person was being honest, other times I felt like I didn’t deserve it. I’ve also struggled with feeling like I need to give them a compliment back to take the attention off me….
It really helped me to practice acknowledging and accepting compliments. It’s a self-esteem exercise that pushed me to own my shit and acknowledge it out loud.
“Thank you, I really appreciate that.”
“Thanks, that is really nice of you.”
“Thanks for noticing, I worked really hard on it.”
challenging at first, but these days I feel a lot more comfortable with it.









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