

I think it’s AMAZING that people are making tools that help them out!
But this chart, to me personally, is way overcomplicated. I teach this stuff & just looking at this graphic makes me scurred.
It is, however, emblematic of my mantra: labels keep us preoccupied with putting people in categories instead of truly understanding our own (and others’) preferences.

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