Sex+

fun fact: a queef is just your vagina making a divine revelation.

can this be common sense yet

HULK LACI SMASH RAPE CULTURE

the g-spot (or rather, the “g-area”) is a pretty neat little thingy.

THE G SPOT IS REAL! don’t let em tell you otherwise!! on today’s sex+, let’s talk about what’s really goin on with your hot spot.

i hereby call for THE END OF DIETS! for the love of pizza and bikinis, yall. and also…for the love of you.

There’s nothing shameful about getting help. If you’re ready to begin the road to recovery, there are lots of us ready to support you.

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photoshop before & after of stars PRAISED FOR THEIR BEAUTY. ughhhhsflsdlekgh even they can’t win.

spread the word: the beauty standards set forth by hollywood, the fashion industry, the advertising industry, and other forms of mainstream media aren’t obtainable by anybody.

it’s okay to shave your body hair
to wax your body hair
to grow it out long
to trim it up short
to color your body hair
to whatever your body hair.

body hair is a matter of personal preference! it’s not a matter of “boys do this and girls do this”, and it’s supermega uncool for people to body police those who have a different preference than they do. pffff. fuzzy or hairless, you’re a friggin babe either way. ;D

having trouble orgasming? you’re not alone! let’s take a trip to the woods and discuss some tips for my vagina pals (and their partners).

(Sex+: Laci’s Guide to ORGASM)

is having sex with a friend a good idea? will you end up hurt and heartbroken or could friends with benefits work out for you? watch this week’s Sex+ before you get sexy with a friend!

(Sex+: SEX WITH A FRIEND?)

…and that’s not to mention that the states using “abstinence only” education have the highest rates of STDs in the country.

New Sex+: A is for ABSTINENCE

…and also ABSOLUTELY AWFUL. Abstinence Only “education” programs are fear-based, slut-shaming, false-information peddling pieces of shit & it’s a disgrace that they get government funding.

Many menstruation ads today are considered, by some, an *empowering approach* to periods. And on the surface, maybe that’s what it looks like. We see smiling women who aren’t held up by menstruation, who are athletic, and business savvy. But when you take a closer look, these images hold the same negative attitudes about menstruation that we see throughout history. These ads subtly, but effectively, communicate that menstruation is embarrassing, gross, and needs to be made “invisible”, that it is a defect you need to “smack down” or defeat, that periods are inconvenient and uncomfortable for men.

Rarely are we provided with a positive view of menstruation. Many of us don’t even know what it would look like to talk about menstruation without implying that it is a “female defect”, shameful, or disgusting. This positive view might reflect that yes, your body actually releases red menstrual fluid, not some mysterious clear blue fluid. That no, it does not make you “dirty” for a week and it’s actually OK to have contact with your menses. That it is not like peeing or pooping because it is biologically connected to sexual reproduction and sexuality. That being on your period doesn’t make you “crazy” or weak or incapable of making rational decisions. That it’s okay to love your period, to hate your period, to be a “tough cookie” or to be upset about it - menstruation is different for everyone. But half the world does it, and it’s not something we should be made to feel bad/embarrassed/gross/defective for.

(See Sex+: PERIOD HATIN’)