RAWRRRR!  let’s talk about STIs!  i’ll be tweeting all about them and answering any + all your questions on the twitterz thursday.  ❤

RAWRRRR!  let’s talk about STIs!  i’ll be tweeting all about them and answering any + all your questions on the twitterz thursday.  

radicalfeministforlife:

lacigreen:

new video babes!  i went to the woods to confess to one of my biggest sexual secrets: i used to fake orgasm.  FOR 6 FREAKING YEARS.  let’s talk about:

✔ faking orgasm
✔ why people do it
✔ why you probably shouldn’t

(NEW SEX+: FAKING ORGASM…)

This is sex positive feminism. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. 

?????  how da fuq does “hey communication is great and you deserve pleasure” translate to “damned if you do damned if you don’t”?  talk about acrobatics of logic.

tbh im getting sick of feminists on tumblr willfully distorting the only movement fighting for healthy sexuality.  we get enough of that shit from the mainstream/basically everyone

daisiesforprudence:

rubyreed:

A few of my favorite activities.

i like how they put capitalism in fun letters

i rly need this framed on my wall

daisiesforprudence:

rubyreed:

A few of my favorite activities.

i like how they put capitalism in fun letters

i rly need this framed on my wall

new video babes!  i went to the woods to confess to one of my biggest sexual secrets: i used to fake orgasm.  FOR 6 FREAKING YEARS.  let’s talk about:

✔ faking orgasm
✔ why people do it
✔ why you probably shouldn’t

(NEW SEX+: FAKING ORGASM…)

my guide to sexual consent is uppity up!  let’s talk about:

✔ why consent is rly rly hella important
✔ how to ask for consent
✔ what consent looks like
✔ consent when you’re drunk

[New Sex+: WANNA HAVE SEX? (CONSENT 101)]

new vid is up ~ SEX WITH DISABILITIES?  my lovely friend olivia joins me to talk about her experiences with sexuality and disabilities!  tons of info, including:

✔ Stereotypes about people with disabilities
✔ Her successes and challenges with dating
✔ How to accommodate various disabilities during sex

my girl Olivia & I are making a vid on SEX AND DISABILITY today! leave us your questions in the notes and she’ll answer them in the vid! PS(anything you want)PPS(even if you’re worried it’s awkward)

my girl Olivia & I are making a vid on SEX AND DISABILITY today! leave us your questions in the notes and she’ll answer them in the vid! 

PS
(anything you want)

PPS
(even if you’re worried it’s awkward)

new sex+ is up babes! THE TRUTH ABOUT PULLING OUT!  here’s the story of how a pretty effective birth control method gets its terrible reputation… in the vid i talk about:

✔ why it fails so often
✔ precum myths
✔ how to make it 96% effective
✔ who should & shouldn’t rely on pulling out

See, to actually fight rape culture you need to say “Sex is always optional. You are never obligated to have sex.” You must always be concerned with consent, and that means you must accept that the answer may very well always be no.

Sex Positivity is Rape Culture in Disguise (via ninjabikeslut)

"Sex Positivity is Rape Culture in Disguise" 
SEX POSITIVITY IS RAPE CULTURE IN DISGUISE?  

Does this person have the slightest idea what sex positivity is?  Hint: it’s not “YOU ARE OBLIGATED TO ENJOY SEX”.  It is not “SEX IS GOOD AND IT IS REQUIRED FOR HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.”  It is definitely not “YOU CAN’T SAY NO.”  In fact, it’s the opposite (and fights for everything in this quote).  It is the philosophy that sex is natural, healthy part of life that should be openly discussed.  That your sexuality is your own, that your body is your own, and NOBODY ELSE’S.  That you are free to explore it so long as everyone can & does consent.  That you have a right to safety, to opting out, to opting in, to finding what feels right for you.  And if you don’t want to be sexual, or you’re not ready, that’s OK too and you deserve the same respect as everyone else.  In these ways and more, sex positivity directly confronts misogyny, abuse, and sexual violence.  It addresses the coercive scripts written by a rape culture and works to put new ones in place.  The sex positive feminist movement is one of the biggest challenges to rape culture that there is.  This kind of willful mischaracterization, from within the feminist movement no less, is a slap in the face to every sex positive activist who works their ass off in a frustrating, never-ending fight to change our fucked up culture.  It’s also a slap in your own face.  Just stop.

it’s funny when people try to claim that being dramatic is a “woman thing”.  as if the entire sports fandom isn’t one giant nonstop drama.

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policymic:

Beyonce pens equality essay, proves she’s the woman’s studies professor you wish you had

Just when you thought your one-sided relationship with her couldn’t get any better, Beyoncé wrote a feminist essay entitled, “Gender Equality is a Myth.” If this makes you want to go back to school and write about the movement that will ultimately be known as Beyoncism, “the interdisciplinary study of how to make feminism the coolest thing ever,” you are not alone.

Read more excerpts

do get pissed at “the media”.  don’t forget what “the media” is. (x)(x)(x)(x)(x)

do get pissed at “the media”.  don’t forget what “the media” is. (x)(x)(x)(x)(x)

new video babes!  in this episode I talk about how

✔society reduces women to things to have sex with
✔it’s so common it feels normal 
✔sexual objectification directly contributes to rape culture

(New Sex+: SEX OBJECT BS)